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Three Qualities Guys Love About You…..

August 18, 2010

By SirNatural

Hey ladies I have taken a survey of over a 100 men and have come up with the magic need to have qualities in a real woman. Now this is not the end all be all list so if you are reading this and you don’t have all of these assets in your repatwa “Get your weight up babe”. For us it’s not all sexual qualities about a women that men love; They help!  but if the truth be told, some of those qualities can be easily found (or heaven forbid, purchased); but there are three things you can give your man that will make you stand out from all the rest – and they have nothing to do with sex!

Many of us know men that are fearful of commitment. One reason they feel this way is that they secretly fear an over-dependant partner who is not capable of standing on her own. A ball and Chain, For the most part, men are team-oriented and as such, they want a team player as their partner — not someone who relies on them to the point they become distracted from their own goals and needs because they are busy taking care of your needs. Total turn off for a long term relationship.

So ladies show him (from the very beginning) that you are not going to be overly reliant on him for your own sense of purpose; and that together, you will carry your own weight while on the team? It’s easy –just tap into three elements that you should already possess :

Playfulness: If you show us early on that you are light-hearted, quick to laugh, and willing to try new things, We will view that as your willingness to also approach problems that may arise with an equally optimistic outlook. In essence, that you are willing to face potential down times with your own skill set – you won’t expect him to fix your problems.

Passionate: Find things that you are passionate about (independent of him and definitely independent of sex) and then talk to him about them. Don’t over do it now. And pick the right time to talk to him about it, not during a Game basketball or football. In doing this, your natural, instinctive enthusiasm will exude from your voice and your eyes and he will inherently see that you have areas of interest that keep you stimulated. In essence, you will not rely on him as the sole provider of your emotional nourishment – you have independent interests to fuel your energy. So now he can have fun with his friends and unwind without worrying about you or getting a phone call every 30 mins for you asking him what is he doing. “Not Cool ladies”

Confidence: Yes, we’ve all heard that Guys love this trait in a woman. But you know what? It’s true to the point that you have to start living it and breathing it if you don’t already possess it fake it if you have to. Even if you think you’re having a bad hair day or wearing an unflattering outfit, you have to carry yourself in such a way that he knows you can weather adversity regardless of the situation. In essence, that you have a positive outlook without looking to him for reassurance – you have your own resources to build your sense of worth. And also dress the part ladies. Confidence is a look, Confidence is a state of mind, Confidence is sexy… A nice high heel gives you the walk the strut that men love some much. A well dress women with a nice stiletto heel turns heads all the time….

So in closing the point is bring these qualities into any burgeoning relationship and you’ll see just how quickly some of your Man’s fears of commitment will melt away with an equal playfulness, passion, and confidence as yours.

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